The Lilith person might have trouble with issues surrounding desirability. This can indicate marriage, but it can also indicate a long-term romantic or sexual relationship. Ami, hello. What I wanted to know first was what past lives we had together. A Lilith conjunct Mars synastry creates an intense hot affair that can lead to abuse of power and hostility, and this couple must learn to take care of each other before passion consumes their lives. Juno aspecting the South Node simply means that the pair was married (in some way) in a past life, or had a longterm marriage-like relationship. Playing with someones emotions when these aspects are involved could lead to bad things such as violence. I, always, have people want to tell me that Nessus is not always abuse. Before I leave this subject, I will add my theory. Yes, I was thinking about this. <3, Hi AmiAnn, do you have any thoughts on this? Your words mean a lot to me! If your Dejanira conjuncts his ASC, Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus or NN, you will be his victim. what do you think about a double-wammy moon sextile pluto and pluto square moon in sinastry? The Moon person feels comforted by the Sun person's energy and the Sun person feels like they can be vulnerable with the Moon person. In these dark, sexual relationships, you feel the raw passion and soul mate connection like no other. Maybe you felt this way sometimes given your Lilith-Eros contacts, but I was certainly the one more outwardly angry when the mess finally hit the fan. What use is reams of esoteric info for real life applications. In fact, it is the opposite. . In order to talk about an asteroid, one must isolate it. I read some things. Any other aspect will show a wound through marriage, but the marriage wasnt necessarily involving both parties together. Posts: 376From: Western Massachusetts, USRegistered: May 2009. If they are conjunct in synastry, a soul mate connection is indicated. His Eros is on her Descendant and her Eros makes a square to his Sun and conjuncts his Vertex. 2021 - ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. I generally cannot stand them, and their tendency to be arogant and conceited towards anyone who doesnt think the way they do does come across as downright abusive to me. It wasn't enough for me to have sex with him though. I think there are very few people who actually manage to overcome childhood abuse, and not without a long painful journey and negative experiences. I had this excerpt saved from somewhere on the internet, but don't have the original source. Hello, what a great article, thank you. Having a planet you have on your 7th house falling on their 1st house and a planet in your 1st house falling on their 7th house and vice-versa which would create an opposite between the two planets in the synastry chart. Conjunction, Opposition, Square, and Trine! They are deceiving themselves, would be a better way to say it. They may not be able to see what you are up to and you could use this for your gain. In some past life, at some point, weve been married to almost everyone weve dated or had some type of relationship with. I only didnt like that its being portrayed as complete truth that will always occur, when its definitely not the case. I think Chiron is extremely important in any synastry chart because it speaks to the deepest wounds created between two people. as well as to the signs and houses. Thanks :), I hope I can do this when I tell you about my own life. I suppose I should add that. In Roman mythology, Eros was known as Cupid. Your analysis is lovely. Lilith on the ic is one of the more potent lilith synastry to have even in the composite. I often am able to get away in time, and at other times I can get away only to a certain degree. Do you think the way it plays out ties into whatever our attitudes toward Eros/Lilith themes (erotic transformation, primal urges, etc) were to begin with? It is a pleasure to be here. Nessus conj the NN in the natal would be a person who would likely be abusive. That is most certainly not the truth. They often indicate a desire to sexually conquer/arouse one another. Your feelings are not fact. Karmic astrology synastry is suddenlyreally interesting when you want to look at your own relationship. I have no vested interest in any asteroid or any placement being any way other than my being able to help people. We do not have enough information on every aspect, and never will because again, no interpretation is set in stone to be able to tell someone that something is most certainly going to happen. They play out to have a certain pattern to the relationship. My dejanira is in opposition to his sun and without any other aspects. Also my true node is at 22 Cancer close to my nessus (conjunction?) for example a 1.46.. or 2? Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. 1) What would it mean when my nessus conjuncts his nessus? I dont think you can draw the concrete conclusion you did from these aspects. YES, your Deja conj his NN will make you his victim, to put it really directly. In this case Nessuus is retro in conjunction with the North node. Yes, this is all very true but the charts exist outside of time, too. Why dont you come and put the chart up on my Forum? Im trying really, really hard not to jump to conclusions, so any help or advice you could give would be very much appreciated. Double whammy of Mars-Uranus in our synastry chart. If you want to end it, be upfront and be kind. Well, I have been thinking about the situation. what would the double wammy of sun and pluto look like? there is no contact in real life anymore but the connection via the sexual chakra (either sacral or root chakra ) is still there and very strong. Do you think I need to worry about the Nessus/BML conjunction or about abusing the poor wounded birds I keep looking for? Or can my Sun hurt the person. This really highlights this magnetic quality to this conjunction and creates a situation where each individual holds the . I wonder if that would mean that he IS an abuser but couldnt abuse me ?? You have such a sweet spirit. Aww Fluffy Positive aspects speak to a generally happy marriage, but there is still karma to be worked out now. In the conjunction, the planets are next to each other( or on top of each other in the exact conjunction). However, if you want me to help you to find Jesus, that is why I am here. Please please do Nessus conjunct Lilith in synastry?? If anything, Ive suffered abuse from others at times. There are no planets conjunct or square either Nessue or Dejanira in either chart, the only conjunction is her Dejanira to his Nessus. Free Horoscopes charts, calculations Birth Natal Chart Online Calculator Ascendant, Rising Sign Calculator Astro Portrait: Sun, Moon, ASC Personal Daily Horoscope Transit Chart Calculator Secondary Progressions Solar Arc, Solar Return, Prognoses Synastry, Composite, Davison Chart Traditional Astrology Calculator Sidereal Astrology Calculator Draconic Astrology Calculator Various astrology . I am sorry. Eros wants intense encounters that lead to lasting transformation. (both in Capricorn) or is the bad guy Nessus only dangerous when in conjonction with Dejanira ? More about Synastry (relationship Astrology) Intermediate and advanced students of Astrology might enjoy our article, SoulMate . Just from reading this, I think it looks very good but I really need to see the wheel as it is easier. vertex conjunct moon and ascendant in scorpio can make it dark too? Things dont come out until marriage, sometimes. I always seem to have the opinion that these people are somewhat evil yet gullible and innocent and therefore they deserve to be abused. What do you think? We also had a Juno Vertex conjunction. I have seen it in a few people, only. Will be keeping my wits about me. Lilith brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger and rage. in the 12th house, you might be safe in assuming that there was a marriage or long-term relationship in a past life. It is disrespect to Astrology which I love and respect. It gives no leg room, and its fearful to people. For teaching purposes, one must break things down, so it may seem like it is contrary but it is really not, imo, Sandy. with Dejanira conjunct his natal Saturn, Mars. Posts: 9778 From: Death Star . I just found out my abusers Moon is 1 degree conjunct my Dejanira. That is why I, affectionately, call them too hot not to cool down. There are certain aspects I see in these dark,nuclear passion relationships. tell me your story, if you care to, Juice dear. 3. Amazingly accurate. I know our feelings are mutually intense but certainly we experience our relationship from different perspectives. I dont pay that much attention to Deja conj another asteroid. If you do this, Astrology will serve its purpose, which is to warn and alert people to possible problems and even dangers. We have our arguments and I sometimes feel put down by him (and, to be fair, he feels the same way about me) and sometimes my self-esteem suffers. It is not as intense as the conjunction but very intense, nonetheless. I have only had this fantasy with him along with begging him and many many other fantasies. To be honest, few people overcome Nessus. Well you may want to take advantage of their trust and innocence. That`s very interesting information. Thats your opinion. the Moons will make for best friends. That is the nature of the DSC. I admire your wisdom. The story of Eros and Psyche is one of deep and transformative love, but their union was not devoid of hardship. Eros in synastry Tell me, what is it like? Lilith Conjunct Ascendant Synastry Sun Conjunct Lilith Synastry This connection will burn as hot as the sun! It does indicate that both partners knew each other in a past life, but other romantic aspects are needed in the chart to create an energy strong enough for a marriage. This was likely a more romantic or sexual relationship instead of something that sustained itself day to day. His Amor is in trine and sextile to a few of her inner planets. There are many, many possibilities in astrology, even infinite if Im speaking on the complexity of each persons chart. You never want to leave your beloveds side until they put you in the grave. You could post it in my Forum if you would like, Eva. 1. You are not an astrology god that holds the key to the entire truth. Venus mars aspects Ami, Christian Psychic Readings & Astrology Charts for All Faiths. . He has pholus conjunct dejanira, all on my BML exact. Please post the charts. Once awakened, no matter how untamed the experience becomes, we are given a rare opportunity to integrate, redeem and restore Eros and Lilith to a place of honor through shared, transcendental sexual activity. Lilith conjunct Ascendant His Nessus conjunct her midheaven. A conjunction is the strongest, but most aspects indicate some type of marriage. If the man is the Dejanira, he would be the victim. This pairing can form a deep emotional bond, especially through physical intimacy. When/if that turns bad, it could become dark. Currently you have JavaScript disabled. OkI really cant comment on the sign, per se. Deep soul love, incredibly painful at times. Eros in Aries makes a person love the chase. (Conjunction, Opposition, Trine, Sextile, Square! I dont do the Draconic. The exception would be the person who overcame it through God. Our mars are square (aquarius:leo) also. The issue is telling people that are in healthy relationships or people that are around a couple in a healthy relationship, that those aspects will certainly play out no matter what. Eros: Synastry Aspects . Next, I have uncovered that in my Draconic Dejanira is 1 degree conjunct my natal Scorpio Moon. There is precious little practical info out there on asteroids. Did you know I had one? Nessus is the abusers asteroid. Come and post the charts. Who does whom, so to speak? I would need to see more, Jenn! Lilith Synastry Sun and Lilith conjunct in the synastry chart When Sun person's Sun and Lilith person's Lilith combine, each person awakens the deep desire for individuality and creativity in each other. Eros conjunction sun and lucky point.. and mercury, uranus, pluto and venus in house seven, libra. Moon conjunct Pluto is the strongest of the Moon/Pluto aspects because the conjunction trumps any other aspect in strength. Yes, astrology charts do show the truth of ones life, but the issue is that YOUR opinions do not equate the truth. Further, there is such a thing such as free will. Planets and asteroids will be modified when they aspect each other, this the possibilities are endless. Most Astrologers dont tell things straight like I do. Great primal connection with fighting lol. When these relationships end, it is not pretty. The conjunction is, in my opinion, the only aspect that clearly dictates a marriage between these specific people. Not good, my Friend. And as far as I know theres a strong correlation between nessus and psychopaths/abusers. I know this is an article for synastry, but Im a little worried about my natal chart after reading about Nessus and Dejanira. And my dejanira conjunct his Venus. The puzzle pieces are coming together for me.. finally. Pluto conjunct Sun synastry indicates a powerful and transformative relationship. Coming from a standpoint of being an archaeologist, we can interpret and theorize things ourselves all we want, but an archaeologist telling a crowd of people that their own interpretation of the past is the TRUTH would not only be incredibly wrong, but it would also be detrimental to people that no nothing about interpreting and analyzing archaeological sites, therefore they would take that persons word even though it is not truth. That is why it is so powerful. Eros in a synastry chart. We are dealing with very primal emotions here and we all know what primal emotions and passions can do if a person is not careful. If an asteroid is conjunct an angle or a planet, placed in a prominent position, or stands out because of some other reason, it can provide an additional layer of insight in chart analysis. Most potent are Eros-Venus, Eros-Ascendant, Eros-Psyche, and Eros-Mars links. If it has not of yet, it may be a new relationship. My Nessus square his Venus Would an eighth house overlay make these destructive or strengthen ? Eros represents our passionate and erotic energy and how we use it. or you consider just the closer orbit? The Five Darkest, Sexual Aspects in Synastry There is attraction based on dark forces like rage, pain and abuse. Keep in mind that conjunctions are the most important, but other aspects can occasionally speak to marriage. That being said, the charts WILL play out, imo and ime. Lilith is looking for sacred sex. Lilith person helps Ceres person find their power and authenticity. In my opinion, it will play out. What conjuncts your Aura? Your email address will not be published. His Dejanira is in 25 Scorpio, conjunct my Part of Fortune in 27 Scorpio, opposite my Moon in 29 Taurus and Mars and Jupiter, in 0 Gemini. However, there is a flip side. His natal mars, lilith, pluto conjunction is conjunct my ic and I've distanced myself from him knowing that he has wayyyy too much power over me, but every time I see him I can barely stand and immediately start shaking I am glad my post was helpful! I read all these comments and yes they are interesting. I was wondering how abuse would play itself out if the Nessus-Deja synastry conjunction is in Cancer. Telling people that something will happen to them because of an aspect is what you in particular FEEL is going to happen, but that is not the truth. And how did you arrive at the conclusion that Nessus and Dejanira are indicative of abuse? so, quick question, where do I post it? My sun and deja are on his nn. I agree with Sydney. PS I checked the synastry of a man I know for sure was abused by his own father physically and emotionally, throughout his childhood, and this mans Nessus is conjunct his fathers Sun. Is this something that reliably and consistently is reflected in a variety of different charts? Eros isnt making any connections to either Dejanira or Nessus though. His touch is all at once sexual, creative and spiritual. Yet despite this fearsome reputation she was often dismissed as " a minor Babylonian wind deity " or similar. I am curious about the dejanira/nessus aspects. Your articles hit me hard again:-). . What if a man has Dejanira conjunct a womans Sun? Vertex conjunct the ascendant is a frequent synastry aspect in the charts of romantic partners. I wasnt abused as a child in any way. 9. Dejanira is the victim asteroid. I just never have, not that it is not good. I would say no, but I am not the last word in anything. Dejanira trines my Ascendant. It would simply be different. Powerful, you say? I hope I can do this in my articles. It can ruin possible healthy relationships. Pluto trine Venus, Venus quincunx Pluto One person is kind of riding the other one in this. Eros represents what turns us on. That would seem to be the case but sometimes, the strength of these aspects get the better of us, so it is hard for me to answer. Would you liken moon/pluto dynamics to an 8th house moon overlay? I have BML in my 1st house in Scorpio along with Venus and Saturn All are in conjunction with BML. thanks, M. Super passion unlike few else. In order to post comments, please make sure JavaScript and Cookies are enabled, and reload the page. There is so few information on these aspects so I really appreciate reading more about it here and in the forum. 1) Planetary house overlays (1, 5, 7, 8, 9 = most important) 2) Planetary aspects. The chart shows the TRUTH. It is not pretty at all. For more context, Nessus/BML dont aspect anything else except a grand trine with Mercury/MC and Jupiter. He has a strong nessus (conjunct with his sun + true node in cancer ). You find them sexually attractive. Mars is the planet of passion, desire and sexual drive and Eros is the physical act of sex Re: Lilith conjunct . You are very welcome, my Friend. As long as we kept connecting the way we had been sexually, I was willing to "fight" for what I thought we had and felt I could withstand anything. It "wakes up those areas inside of us and causes us to express them sexually, free from the restrictions of reality. Eros in Synastry seems appropriate to discuss for this time of year. YES. I have my dejanira conjuct by one degree with my AC line. Same natal chart of a man who is 41-42 years old. Moon/Pluto does not have to be dark sexual but if any planetary aspect would be, it would be this. Saturn draws the couple together due to karma, but Juno and South Node aspects offer more of a choice. I came across your blog post and so went through my charts looking for couple friends and this one came up as having the conjunction. That is my commitment to my readers. Hi, This would take a whole chart reading. Thanks SO much for your kind words. I would have to consider the scenarios more. Thanks! Mars/Pluto is more primal in a pure sexual way than Moon/Pluto which is more emotional and much more emotionally bonded. Check house placement and aspects to further your . How fortunate we are to have such a wonderful body of info to help us! on Dejanira and Nessus. in the 12th house, you might be safe in assuming that there was a marriage or long-term relationship in a past life. The chart never lies, my Friend. How will these aspects play out? Im not saying it is impossible for the aspects to play put for people, because a lot of times, you do see it come into play, but really only when ones own natal supports that factor with aspects between actual planets. ? To summarize, I would say that Mars/Pluto could be passionate sex and passionate emotions but no soul.If a chart had no Moon aspects and Mars/Pluto aspects, I would say it would be a fling. 1) What does it mean to have dejanira 13 in conjuction with my ascendant 12? You lose about 25% but still have about 75%. The first would be Nessus. This is based on experience and charts, as are all my theories. To me, it always is. We can still find a lot of info with no time of birth. But I did find out that her Amor conjuncts their Dejanira-Nessus conjunction, so her Dejanira is conjunct her Amor. Hmm 4) Conjunctions to the Axis/Angles = very strong bond. There is no superficial way to get to know Lilith through the experience of the erotic. You do not have to do their chart. The Basic House Rulers23 Simple Steps for Beginners. Unlike Juno/Saturn aspects, Juno in aspect with the South Node does not necessarily indicate that marriage in this life will be a force. I don't need anything from you, except to serve you. I have this kinky fantasy specifically for him putting a really big needle into me as part of a medical procedure but this isnt my kink or fetish. Those interpretations CAN happen, but they are not destined to. Conjunctions, oppositions, and trines are best. Would the aspects to the venus offset the negativity that the Dejanira implies? With mercury and Uranus in Scorpio. 12 degrees is WAY too much to be conj the ASC, my Friend. A later relationship was abusive (a psychopath) His Nessus square my Sun There`s also lot of growth and sweetness and nothing that amounts to abuse. For example, I am the moon person and my mars also falls in his 8th and much of what you described for moon/pluto conjunction sounds like us. Ive only been studying astrology casually for 5 years, so even though I know the basic interpretation of those planets in contact, Id still love to hear it from a pro love your blog! 5. I have looked at them unto themselves but everything matters so I will start to incorporate signs and houses. Posts: 83From: 8th houseRegistered: Jan 2014, Posts: 50409From: Saturn next to CharmaineRegistered: Apr 2009, Copyright 2000-2015 There is NO way this will work out well, in my opinion. I'm so cappy Knowflake . Also, our vertexes are conjunct in the same degree. It creates a synastry energy where all the houses for the whole chart are conjunct to their opposite house in the partner's chart. Both of them are loaded with sexual power, so their interaction is often explosive. Lilith on the ic is one of the more potent lilith synastry to have even in the composite. The Sun person naturally understands who the Moon person is and vice versa. We`ve known each other for a few months and generally it is a good relationship. Asteroids touching asteroids are not as powerful as asteroids touching persona; points on the chart such as the ASC, Moon, Sun, Venus etc. I do Astrology the way that I would want to learn it. I can relate to everything Ive read from you. Is there a positive aspect to this connection? It is typical cat and mouse game with taboo twists. Hi Ami. You are welcome to your opinion but I stand on what I wrote. xx, haha you are so cute, I like you and you write very simple and easy to understand. His Pluto sextile my moon, His Jupiter conjunct my moon and his Neptune conjunct my moon, also his mars opposite my venus, is that conducive to passion and helping me release my cancer 8th house sun conjunct north node repressesion? And what about Sun and Pluto contacts in synastry? Thank you, Amiann. When Eros touches the Sun, the energy of both the Sun and Eros awaken between . His 8th house Nessus is conjunct my 7th house Dejanira (2s), opposite my moon (-1s) and square my mercury (2a). I bet that the son was still the abuser though, even if he was the victim, as a child. I do find it funny that I have Dejenira in 5 deg Sag, since most of my arch enemies were Sags. What about nessus exactly conjunct BML in synastry the man is nessus (9h), Wow Is there a super attraction that feels so strong that it will blow you off your feet? My guess is that it would be an obsessive relationship where both would try to hurt each other? Their capacity for intimacy and shared desire to melt into the fires of transformation is nothing short of total risk, which each are compelled to take- no questions asked. She is raw sexuality which will not be dark if it touches Venus imo and Welcome , what if I have my Lilith conjunct his juno and his venus. I have some extreme aspects and I shudder to think how they would be expressed had I not had saturn at the top of my chart who keeps things in check via a grand trine involving some big bad planets.

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