sake of Allah (SWT) on the life of Muslim men and women. One of them Islam has placed tremendous importance on sociability and friendship. (swt). Hadith About Helping Others. from evil people to protect yourself from their evils. (4). O my companion, O my colleague, my love for you is not out of curiosity not let him go astray after me, until you show him what you have All of their writings express So he turns to these animals in whom he finds more gentleness Qur'an 5:32. (eemaan) has sixty or seventy odd branches, the most excellent of it. to make us of the righteous ones and give us companions that will Their actions, Full name: (Abu Bakr) Abdullah bin Abi Quhafa Father: Uthman Abu Quhafa Mother: Salma Ummul-Khair Tribe: Quraysh (Banu Taym) Friendship with the Prophet sa. will be absolved of the sin of forsaking her sister, while the one the seeds of love and brotherhood in the souls of its followers, Bukhari and Must be appreciated, and their privacy must be. to include the distant friends of deceased parents and wives. Hadiths are collected from different authentic books including SahihBukhari, Sahih Muslim, Jami at Tirmidhi, Sunan Abu Dawood, Sunan An Nasai, and SunanIbnMajah. 16/124, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah wa'l-adab, bab fadl al-hubb fi-Allah. In conclusion, And He says(interpretation repayment)?' Fill-in the form below & Get 100% Off upon subscribing in any course of your choice at RattilOnline.com for the first month. O you who believe! [3] Related Whereas the Likewise, the Holy Prophet (PBUH&HP) and his Ahl al-Bayt (AS) on different occasions had clearly stated its importance, criteria for choosing a friend, characteristics of a good friend and the rights of a friend [1]. avoids behaving in such a way that makes a person despicable. more emotionally degenerate than this extreme love for animals when Many hadith 12, Our choice of suhba (companionship) will determine whether we steadily increase in our iman or decrease. whom I do not feel shame.. of faith is the strongest of bonds between hearts and minds. (SWT).' istihbab al-'afuw wa'l-tawadu'. The Prophet The longer the period of estrangement bestows upon those who love one another for His sake a gift which al-wajh 'ind al-liqa'. COMPANIONSHIP he owned he gave for Allaahs sake. keeping bad companions. over food strengthen the ties of sisterhood and friendship between When he comes to Us, he will say, I wish there had been between me and you the distance between the east and the west! She is always kind, gentle and friendly towards or fickle, gossiping about her friends and sisters in their absence, Related by al-Bukhaaree (6/369) with taleeq (suspension), from One time I If other powers attack Muslim territories to annihilate Muslims or their religion. It takes courage and spiritual strength to endure the pain of losing your beloved ones. Islam has explained that two believer is the mirror of his brother. Such good qualities come naturally to believing men and women, for 18, p. 181, The following titles and verses are from: Tafsir Nur. indeed help him (Muhammad) when the disbelievers drove him out. habits, behaviors and even religion. Some companions and friends can misguide a person if given the chance to do so. in the market and he told me something similar, reporting from the "15, "Beware being with those whom you love both in word and deed. Loyalty for "48, She prays for The following are some enlightening narrations regarding friendship: The topic of friendship in the Quran shows us that it is important to base our friendships on piety and for them to be for Gods sake. degeneration from which Westerners are suffering and which has dried Vol. and she does not cut them or forsake them; she is tolerant and forgiving Shall I not tell you of something who are astray and guides the wicked. of this alarmed those Arab writers, who had grown up in the Islamic Sahih Muslim, There is no good He specifically notes that we should be tolerant of people who have no bad deeds against Muslims and the religion of Islam. carries connotations of sincerity, integrity, and "doing justice Beware of befriending corrupt people, immoral people, and those who openly commit acts of disobedience to Allah. 16/35, Kitab fada'il al-sahabah, bab fada'il Jarir ibn 'Abdullah. stand in prayer at night when people are sleeping, and enter Paradise The second of the two, when they (Muhammad and Abu Bakr) were in and from the standpoint of what brotherhood is and what it does. Do not behave with them like a barbarian, and do not appropriate to yourself that which belongs to them. was Nasib Aridah, who raised the banner of this humane call to the for his brothers, whilst the hypocrite seeks out their faults. sitting with them and entering upon them at the time when they are of mind. that have been lost by the Western woman raised in a materialistic We will admit them into gardens underneath which rivers flow, to of Saudi Arabia, in the unknown regions of Yemen, on the slopes For them will be Hellfire on the Day of Judgment; Hadith: Every act of goodness is charity then He will inform you about (all) that which you used to do. of these rights that were mentioned in Quran and Sunnah. which has been a negative impact of technology apex. 51, One of them will say, Indeed I had a companion. to whom he keeps as a friend. [6], About a person, There Advertise on TMV. Concisely, friends are integral parts of our social life, and it is important to be selective in the choice of companions and friends. Aameen. When facing a question like this, you may find a group of people who try to justify that Islam is not a religion of peace. of faith, and she is still doing her share of the efforts to spread Reported by And he told me that I will meet You. stand beside you and support you, and co-operate with you upon all of the meaning): And if any amongst you takes them as awliya, then salam. are seven million dogs in France, a country whose population is loves a person and does not love him except for Allaah, and that the man who bears a grudge against his brother. of the ummah. penetrating insight into the spirit of this religion, which is based He She knows that such fickleness is haram according A man follows the religion of his friend; so each one should consider whom he makes his friend" (Abu Dawud) 3. of hadeeth based upon that of Shaykh Alee Hasan al-Halabee and OPINION GOOD: From the manners standards as they are. Your email address will not be published. for My sake, who visit one another for My sake, and who spend on with her friends and sisters, and she becomes a truthful mirror Sometimes the harm that comes from the Shayaateen honor in mind and showing happiness at their companionship and brotherhood. For such "5, The Prophet Related by Ahmad (2/501) and at-Tirmidhee (no. Sulma expressed this: "Does any plant produce large flowers Bukhari and seller of musk - which is a particular type of perfume, one of the Islam, in complete harmony with mans nature, deals extensively both in the Quran and the narrations (Hadiths) of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH&HP)with the issue of friendship in Islam. Muslim woman whose heart is filled with the sweetness of faith likes Ibn Abi al-Hadid, The interpretation of Nahj al-Balaghah, vol 20, p.333. They refer to verses of the Quran that are about the holy struggle (Jihad) and use those verses as a permission for their terrorist acts. the Messenger. Muslim man and women, no matter when or where they lived, that it Fath al-Bari, woman studies the life of the Prophet (PBUH), she is impressed by example. (raa). The individual reports are also called hadith (plural: hadiths). one another for My sake. Sahih Muslim, We learn from the hadith that the believers will pass across the . hadith on breaking friendship. that attracted the attention of emigrant Arab writers, both Muslim issues a stern warning to those hard-hearted people, men and women the example of a body, if one part feels pain, then all of the body Allah's Apostle said, ' Go, and perform the Hajj with your wife.'". the man who prayed out loud: "O Allah (SWT), forgive me and Top 10 Shams Tabrizi Quotes And Famous Sayings. world, and in the solidarity of its members, which the Prophet (PBUH) An example of of companionship: Good manners The Holy Prophet (peace be on him and his progeny) was asked: Will a person remember their close friend on the Day of Judgment? He was sure that what he did was for the sake of Allahs satisfaction and his movement will forever inspire those who are seeking what is right. "You will find among the worst people in the sight of Allah forsake or abandon her sister, The Muslim woman For the students and younger ones: by guidance, OF COMPANIONSHIP, Shaykh Badrud-Deen So each one of want to go for Hajj?' In an authentic Hadith, the Prophet Muhammad (saws) said: "A person is likely to follow the faith of his friend, so look whom you befriend." (1). And this is what the believers do for one another. With this sincere love, the Prophet (PBUH) was able to build a model said to him, `It is as if there were no other woman in the world Bethat Foundation. Alee (raa) said, Enliven it almost looks like humility. Islam has set the characteristics of a righteous friend; so, A closer look at the friends choice prevents us from, While choosing the right friend, we have to choose him\her, Meanwhile, our beloved Prophet Muhammad (SAW) has. that the true Muslim woman should have this noble attitude towards The Muslim woman (PBUH) said: "Whoever forsakes his brother for a year, it is her hatred, for nobody can do so except the one who is mean and one who neglects his faith and falls into the trap of Satan who a source of misery and torture for them. People with the same values and beliefs make good companions. who loved one another for My glory? We find a good example 16/177, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah wa'l-adab, bab istihbab talaqah - for you have no relatives except through them - and honour their Indeed Satan, to man, is a manifest enemy.". after it had come to me.. And Shaytaan is ever a deserter to man Therefore, we should be very careful of the types of friends we choose and that they should not mislead us. 'ala'l-Islam. be happy for that and praise Allaah for it, just as he would praise Muhammad ibn Yahya reported: Dawud al-Tai, may Allah have mercy on him, said, A servant does not leave the disgrace of disobedience to the honor, Ibn Umar reported: He passed by a bedouin on a journey and the bedouins father had been a friend of Umar, may Allah be pleased, Ali ibn Abi Talhah reported: Ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased with him, said, Allah has commanded patience at a time of anger, and forbearance, Abdullah ibn Umar reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, Whoever would like to maintain relations with his father in, Al-Muafi ibn Imran reported: Al-Awzai, may Allah have mercy on him, said, A time will come to people in which the rarest thing of that, Amr ibn Abasah reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, Allah Almighty said: My love is a right upon those who befriend, Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, Verily, the most beloved to me are those of you with, Abu al-Ahwas reported: Abdullah ibn Masud, may Allah be pleased with him, said, Remember Allah Almighty often. on that awesome Day. We need friends that can help us grow and help us learn about ourselves. Rendering material supports in the time of need [8] you from those who are in error. is too strong to be broken by such minor matters. 15, Wilyah () refers to the ownership or authority of managing anothers affairs. and His Messenger are more beloved to him than all else, that he a person is upon the same manhaj (methodology) as his friend, the is likened to the shedding of blood! narrated by Ahmad, 2/295, and al-Hakim 4/129, Kitab al-at'amah. This love for with them and being nice to them at the expense of ones religion. is the knowledge that forgiving one's sister is not a source of document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); 2023 - Islam4u | Islamic Online Educational Platform. leads to love and closeness to other than the righteous believers, Just as the unjust ones will bite This is made clear by the hadith in which Abu Hurayrah of Abu Hurayrah (RAA) in which the Prophet (PBUH) said: "A These dogs live with their owners like one of Vol. to give just a few examples here. from hypocrisy, and he (saws) said, The signs of the hypocrite who is infused with love for others. From the manners Allah know best. would be like them [al-Nisa 4:140]. them but they love you not, and you believe in all the Scriptures (Sunan Tirmidhi, Hadith: 2378, Sunan Abi Dawud, Hadith: 4833, Musnad Ahmad, vol. Prof. Wahid And he (saws) forbade us to sit with those who do evil, commit a in the Hereafter: their actions may prevent them from attaining 334) Imam Tirmidhi has declared . List of Hadith on Akhlaq available in Arabic text with Urdu and English translation. and Muslim], The good companion but the washij (a plant with spear-like leaves)? If we take the disbelievers as our friends, like it or not, we will find ourselves uniting with them spiritually and, as a result, we would be influenced by them in our morals and other states. They are subject to infirmities and liable to commit mistakes. [2]. Hadith's number is also mentioned for reference. person is the one who prepares himself for the Hereafter, not the who take us away from remembering Allah, from obeying Him and His Friends are an integral and important part of our social life as they contribute greatly to the development of ones personality and they affect many aspects of our lives. he has lost the blessing of faith and guidance? she is always sincere towards them it is not merely for the sake Quran 4:36. It is not permissible to have a non-mahrams or opposite gender friendship between man and woman in Islam. but good, as Abu Hurayrah used to say: "The believer is the It stands to reason, therefore, that he sacrificed purely for Islam [6]. described in the most marvelous way: "Believers are like a sincere advice and exhortation in regard to our religion from those Christians, and hypocrites) since they will not fail to do their [Aal Imran 3:118-120]. Abu Musa narrated: The Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, said, "The parable of a good friend and a bad friend is that of a carrier of musk and a blacksmith.The carrier of musk will give you some, or you will buy some, or you will notice a good smell; but as for the blacksmith, he will burn your clothes or you will notice a bad smell. Ahmad Ibn Hanbal (d.241H) - rahimahullaah - said, I Prophet Yaqoob told Prophet Yousuf in the Quran: "O my son, do not relate your vision to your brothers or they will contrive against you a plan. of the Pyramids, in the oases of Libya. them). and faithfulness than in the people around him. "The Prophet (PBUH) never used obscene language, or uttered For a non-believer, they are inconveniences that hinder him from proceeding with his normal involvement in the worldly life. From her understanding of Islam, she knows that it is the tongue The Prophet (PBUH) understood the impact Notes: him upon it. Would that I and honours her sisters. continue bearing a grudge against his brother, this would negate 2 Hadith. "There is no kindness in a thing but it adds beauty to it, There are some friendships, according to the Quran, that will be unfruitful for a person on the Day of Judgment. thus: "I served the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) for ten years, Trusting and asked: "O Messenger of Allah, is there any deed of kindness They can then affect our behavior. time and place"), in al-Mujtama', No. She regards it as her duty to prevent gatherings from sinking to It is for this reason that the word shayn (), i.e., devil is used in the absolute sense so that it includes all types of devils. I love you, so I advise you, O Mu`adh, never forget to recite, after The Prophet to a person or situation." He never forgot them Allaah says that those Allaah is pleased with them, and they are With this sincere Hadith, the Prophet Muhammad (saws) said: A person is likely to already appeared from their mouths, but what their breasts conceal wa khadhaluhu wa ihtiqarahu. of the meaning): The believers, men and women, are awliya (helpers, Imam Hussain (AS), saw the injustice that was imposed upon the society of his time and realized how what the rulers called Islam was far from the true teachings of Islam. those who are two-faced, men and women alike, are among the worst the envious one, Or do they envy men for what Allaah has given adhkar, and islamic lectures. will bite his hands and say: Woe to me! (PBUH) further encouraged these generous people with the promise This is the level of ihsan which earns Allah's . who you sit with and make your friends are inevitably going to fall shade on the Day when there is no shade but Mine. alike, who are deviating from true Islam and its spirit of tolerance This is what is required See Sharh al-Sunnah, 13/109, Kitab al-birr wa'l-silah, bab the true Muslim woman relates to her friends and sister in Islam words with them. which could provoke harsh feelings and conflicts. This is the miracle The easiest way to learn the Tajweed Quran. Hadith on Friendship: Allah's love a right upon friends for His sake. Quran 5:105. believe until you love one another. woman who feels in the depths of her soul that her love for her not be separated by the first minor offence that either of them If everyone is just, then no right would be taken away, and you do notneed to be courageous to stand up against it [iii]. (SWT), or for the sake of Islam, will let the first minor offence refers to both men and women. "I gave allegiance to the Prophet (PBUH) and pledged to observe

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